When faced with life altering, gut wrenching change, we often become paralyzed with fear and uncertainty. We do nothing, we start to shut down and our brains run wild with an endless array of negative thoughts about the impacts that this dramatic change will have.
In reality the change that is brought upon us is more often than not, the beginning of a new and much better way of life, even though right in the moment it feels like the end of the world. Perhaps we are forced to find a new and better job, or relationship, or get off the credit rollercoaster or finally take action about health.
HUGE change often produces amazing end results and when we are honest with ourselves, it is generally change that deep down we know we needed but we were too scared to take action until someone or something forced it upon us.
My advice from my own personal experience of a life filled with major change over a 40 year period, is to let it play out, realise that right here and right now is only the beginning of what might just be a new and wonderful life.